Tezza’s Favourite Posts Of All Time

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Written on July 1, 2008 by Tezza

It was a year ago to this day that 4EvaYoung.com was born. In my About page I wrote: “Tezza started this site originally as an idea to transmit all the junk stuck in his head into a public medium for others to ponder over. It has since turned into his personal collection of resources and a place to voice his opinions on various topics. Tezza has found blogging cheaper than ending up in a counselors office so he will continue blogging into the future even if sometimes he feels he is writing to himself.” A year on it still holds a great deal of truth, blogging has been therapeutic and has enabled myself to personally grow while hopefully being of usefulness for you, my readers, who are yourselves on your own journey of life.

I readily admit that I’m no expert in any topic I discuss on this blog, so it has been a real joy to read your comments and emails from my faithful readers. Keep them coming. So as this blog celebrates it’s “First Birthday”, I wanted to put together my top 7 posts of all time. Enjoy!

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Life After September 11 - “Lest We Forget”

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Written on June 17, 2008 by Tezza

Like many visitors to New York City, I made my way to the World Trade Center site. I never did see the Twin Towers prior to September 11, 2001 and so my only images of the towers before that fateful day are from pictures. You don’t have to be a New Yorker to have been touched by that event, the ramifications of that one moment in history have reverberated around the world and for some it’s still ongoing. Unless your a New Yorker I think you can never truly understand the events of 9-11, I know i don’t.

Like many i still remember that day, I got woken up by a friend in the early morning and was told that something “big” was happening in New York. I didn’t think anything of it at the time and went back to sleep. Then I get here to New York and everyone has their own personal account as its a day that has been forever etched into their memory. Some New Yorkers have been brave enough to share their story with me, and it’s humbling to listen to them every time. Sometimes we find peace and comfort knowing that our loved ones memories are kept alive, and it is with that thought in mind that I share these stories with you, “lest we forget”. Continue reading! »

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Norman Vincent Peale’s Top 10 Positive Pearls of Wisdom

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Written on June 10, 2008 by Tezza

This is a wonderful post written by Henrik at the Positivity Blog. I have read Peale’s book on “The Power of Positive Thinking” and thoroughly enjoyed it. Here are some of my favorite points from the post: Norman Vincent Peale’s Top 10 Positive Pearls of Wisdom.

Focus on today.

“Don’t take tomorrow to bed with you.” - Norman Vincent Peale

Focus on today by building “a habit of spending more time in the present and less time in imagined future scenarios or old memories.” You would probably be in shock if you were ever to take stock of how much time you spend daily daydreaming, fretting over things you can’t change and thinking about tomorrow. We all do it, the key is to be conscious of when you are doing it so that you can stop it and return back to the present. You may also “…do this through things like focusing on your breathing or on your inner body.” Continue reading! »

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Best Of 4EvaYoung For 2008

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Written on May 31, 2008 by Tezza

As we start to creep into June here is a wrap up of the most popular posts for this year.

Why Firing Your Worst Friends Could Be The Best Investment You Ever Made

Whether it’s in a business environment or personal life, relationships are the key to longevity and overall health. You want to foster and maintain good relationships. You can’t possibly do that to your best ability if you are constantly having to tend to low value friends who drag you down, attack your self worth, wear you out or just aren’t supportive with your life choices or direction. So as Donald Trump would say in his once popular TV show “Apprentice” - “Your fired!”. Here are the type of friends that deserve to get shown the door. Continue reading! »

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How To Appreciate Everyday For The Gift It Is

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Written on May 12, 2008 by Tezza

“Your daily life is a temple and your religion” - Khalil Gibran

I know I’ve squandered away many years of my life living up to someone else’s expectation, imagined and otherwise. We’ve all been guilty of that at one point or another. We get sold on this idea of who we should be, what success is and how we ought to live and before you know it you’ve forgotten who you were. How life can so easily be consumed by misplaced obedience.

Whether it’s the house wife who dreamed of traveling the globe, the doctor who wanted to be an artist, the waitress who dreamed of becoming a star. The story is the same. Somewhere along the way we became an unwitting victim in someone else’s story. That “someone” may have been a parent who convinced you that there is no future in painting or society that says that being a good mother and wife required you to sacrifice your dreams. Whoever that “someone” might be in your life, only you can take a stand and decide that everyday is a gift. You can squander it living out someone else’s life or you can live by your own choices and determine your own future.

It’s a daily choice to participate fully in the miracle of life or you can turn it into a constant and daily frustration of repetitiveness and drudgery. What a waste that would be. Continue reading! »

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Fed Up Of Wasting Time On Facebook

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Written on April 29, 2008 by Tezza

I never did participate in the craze of MySpace and I managed to fend off Facebook for a great deal of time until I one day too succumbed to the growing phenomenon. While social networking sites can prove to be a wonderful networking tool for some, I’ve personally found that it is largely just a waste of precious time.

The people I already want to stay in contact with already exist on my phone and email list so adding them again to Facebook seemed almost a redundant step. Throw in privacy concerns that have been circulating about Facebook, the fact that acquaintances can now track you far too easily, the time wasting application requests that you get daily and the benefits of Facebook quickly start to diminish. Continue reading! »

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Practical Tips For The Camino de Santiago

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Written on April 21, 2008 by Tezza

The idea of pilgrimage is hardly a recent phenomenon. It has been going on for thousands of years and many different religions have their own pilgrimage traditions. The Camino de Santiago in modern day times attracts people from all walks of life, ages and religious affiliations. They come for a myriad of personal reasons and you will find religious reasons are now not as common as they once were. If you’re planning a pilgrimage to Santiago then here are a few practical considerations to think about to ensure your experience is memorable for all the right reasons.

To Go Alone Or With Someone

The great debate for any traveller is whether to go alone or with someone. In Winter Camino you will find many pilgrims go it alone as they are in search of answers or just for practical reasons. Summer pilgrimage brings in large crowds of people across Europe on holidays and you’ll find more groups on the Camino. Whether you go with someone or by yourself is a personal decision. Continue reading! »

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